a Day of Reflection for the conflict in and about Northern Ireland

I grew up in a place where people killed each other. This happened regularly. Beyond the deaths there was violence, intimidation, threats and no end of personal unpleasantness that perpetuated the situation. The situation improved after the Good Friday Agreement, but it did not change everything and many things are yet to be sorted out to everyone's liking.
It might be easy to say that we should all forget about it and move on, but forgetting is impossible and even if we all wanted to do it we couldn't. So in its place we try peace initiatives, cross-community work and power sharing. These aren't great but no-one expected the problems to be solved overnight.
In all of this, too little has been done to remember the suffering of so many that the conflict produced. The Day of Reflection offered by Healing Through Remembering is an opportunity to do this. (FYI I have worked for them in the past and continue to support what they do.) 

The Day of Private Reflection on 21 June is a day to acknowledge the deep hurt and pain caused by the conflict, to reflect on our own attitudes, on what more we might have done or might still do, and to make a personal commitment that such loss should never be allowed to happen again. 

It is not the only one. And having an inclusive day will not receive the support of all. But it is something and I hope more can come from it. I hope you do too.


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